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   Christian Cafe.com (10day FREE TRIAL) 

Christian Cafe was one of the first and is a Christian owned and operated site, which is really what your looking for. If you take time to look at the site you will see a long list of comments and testimonals from very happy customers that have found love and even marriage from using this site.

Created in 1998 the Cafe has stood the test of time in what is a very competitive market place – namely online dating. This organisation is truly global so no matter what part of America you live in,   Christian Cafe    is almost certainly going to help you meet your perfect match. Even if you are looking at this site from outside the USA the Cafe has singles from all around the world.

  Pricing   is very reasonable for what you receive with this site.

Membership Rates (All prices are in US dollars)
Two Weeks	$29.95	Only $2.14/day
One Month	$34.95	Only $1.17/day
Three Months	$49.95	Only 56 cents/day
Six Months	$79.95	Only 44 cents/day
One Year	$109.95	Only 30 cents/day

After you fill out a short personal profile you can search their database of Christian singles. Once you find someone of interest you can send them an email through the internal email system (completely anonymous) or try a ‘wink’ to break the ice. they also have Christian chat rooms as another way to meet other Christian singles.

UPSIDE 

• Christian Owned and Operated
• 10 Day Free Trial
• Video and Audio Chat For Members
• Own Private email Address
• Instant Messenger
• Post Prayers
• Customer Help & Support

DOWNSIDE

•  The website is in need of slight modernization but this is underway
  

      This is by far the best site for Christian Dating and we rate it  5/5            

This is a great place to start because of the 10 day free trial which gives you plenty of time to familiarise yourself with the site and it wont cost you anything for those free 10 days.

Here is the link if you wish to take a closer look at   Christian Cafe.com (10day FREE TRIAL) 

Review For SCN  Single Christian Network.com

( Now Known as SingleC.com )

originally started way back in 1991 as a dating postal service, SCN moved on to the web as technology advanced and become cheaper for everyone to use. Because they are long standing they have similar standing to Christian Cafe in terms of being global and a large database of customers. They have plenty of testimonails from very happy Christians that have found success through their site and again it is a Christian run site.  Profiles are pre screened before acceptance to ensure only people of the same faith are signed up.

**This review has been edited because SCN and Christian Cafe merged at the beginning of June 2009.**

All the benefits of Christian Cafe can now be found at SCN but If I was to ignore the fact that they have recently merged I would still put them at  a very close 2nd place. Pricing is obviously the same as Christian Cafe.

UPSIDE 

• Christian Owned and Operated
• 10 Day Free Trial
• Free Live Chat
• Bible Study
• Prayer Forum
• Customer Help & Support

DOWNSIDE

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  Has a comparison page with another website, which we thought wasn’t necessary for the purpose of a Christian Dating website, this is more common with secular websites.

This is still a very good solid well established Christian Dating Site and we rank it  4/5

   So if you think you would like to try Single Christian Network here is the link   SingleC.com 

Review For Christian Connection

This is a UK based dating agency created in 1999 with glowing testimonials from happy suscribers. It is linked to its sister site events for christians which is a very detailed "whats on" site for people to search and find local activities in their area. The Events site also holds regular events for its members such as speed dating, wine tasting, murder mystery, BBQ’s and much more. C C also has a 5 day trial period for you to try out the site. It has lively discussion boards inviting topical debate from its members. It has an instant caht service, quick search facility to browse possible matches. 

UPSIDE 

• Flexible Membership scheme
• 5 Day Free Trial
• Instant Messanger Live Chat
• Events Website
• Facility to promote your own events
• Quick Search Facility
• Customer Help & Support

DOWNSIDE

• Restricted to UK and Ireland only

 Membership prices

12 Months – £6.63/month
One-off single payment of £79.50

6 Months – £8.75/month
One-off single payment of £52.50

3 Months – £11.67/month

Initial payment of £35.00
Auto renewed at £29.95 every 3 months

1Month – £17.50/month

Initial payment of £17.50
Auto renewed at £15.75 every month

 This is still a very good well established Christian Dating Site and we rank it  3/5 but only because it is restricted to the UK and Ireland.

Take a look at Christian connection

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Christian Cafe.com (10day FREE TRIAL) 

 Single C

Christian Connection

Every Christian Needs Christian Advice For Dating

Above all, the most difficult thing for Christian singles is to find someone with similar beliefs and who respects your choices under the Lord. There is a lot of dating advice out there for nonbelievers, but not much Christian advice for dating. You must keep in mind that you are not dating for entertainment, you are looking for someone to commit yourself to who also follows the beliefs of the Lord Jesus Christ.

The topic that comes up the most in Christian advice for dating or questions about dating from Christians is the topic of premarital sex, which is one of the most dire sins you can commit. Avoiding such a sin is not easy, but if you safeguard yourself and avoid being alone for extended periods of time you should be safe. If things get tough in that area, politely remind your date that you are firm in your beliefs and will not budge. Someone who is not a believer and tries to pressure you into sexual relations is not worth your time — A little bit of "entertainment" is not a good enough reason to commit such a sin, nothing is worth committing premarital relations if you consider the ramifications.

Now that we’ve gotten that out of the way, onto more light topics.

When going on a date with someone for the first time, try to find a scope of their faith. Don’t ask them excessive amounts of questions about it and don’t chastise them for not being a Christian if they’re not one, a date is not the setting to convert people to our Lord and Savior. Set boundaries for the person and if they accept them with open arms, Christian or not, the date will go very well. Several sources for Christian dating advice advise not dating someone who is not a Christian, but you may be able to convert them later on so they are a believer in Jesus Christ. Do not discriminate against someone if they are not of your own faith, everyone is equal in God’s eyes. But do not allow sinful behavior either.

Be polite with your dates, even if they are not as polite. Being courteous is always welcome when dating and will make your date feel comfortable with you. Remember, you are looking for a spouse, not a "fling". In order to find the person that is right for you, you must behave in a civil manner and woo them as much as possible, within means.

Dating as a Christian is hard, especially for teenagers. Going into any date, hold your beliefs to your heart and your head high. That is the key to Christian dating and Christian advice for dating. Your faith comes first, and the future comes second.

By: Walter Sigmore

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This article is useful if you have broken up with someone this is helpful and straight forward help even if your not a christian

Relationship Breakup Advice And Tips

Relationship breakingup hurts and perhaps the more painful thing than making the decision to end everything is telling the person face to face you are with that your relationship is finished.

Although there’re already time when some signs come to exist that the relationship is going nowhere and it is already time to go separate, it will not make it easier or less painful. In fact, the hardest part to finish is actually saying goodbye when facing your ‘ex-lover’.

You have to do it no matter how hard or painful it will be.It will be good to both of you to find opportunities for new loves if there’re no more reasons to stay with each other.Several tips are given below that will help you to gently break the news out.

1. Be 100% Sure
Make sure you’re absolutely sure about your decision before saying the words.Stick to your decision closely if you feel it is time to go separate. Do not attempt to take it out for any other reasons besides the fact that you really want.If breaking up is not what you really mean,do not say it! Or you’ll get a lot of complications sooner or later.If you have made the decision, do not let your ex-partner sway your decision. Stick strongly with it.

2. No Delay
Delaying will only increase the pressure. The more time you delay,the harder it will be to say out.If you feel that it is time to end the relationship, then say it,do not miss a second.

3. Prepare For It
It could be really painful for both sides no matter which side decides to end the relationship.If it is you who decides to end your relationship, choose your words carefully and make sure that you words will not make the situation even more painful.The words are not the only thing you should prepare. You also have to choose the proper time and the proper place.Make sure the time is right for both of you and the place is extremly private and comfortable. Choose a moment when you are both relaxed. Thus, you both will be rational. Never ever break up with someone in the middle of a fight or in a heated moment.It is the most important thing.

4. Dealing In Person
Out of respect to your ex-partner, come up with the courage to do it in person. This way, you can talk afterwards and clear up things. There is nothing more annoying that people who break up over the telephone or through letters.Many unresolved issues can surface if you do not do it in person.

5.Let past misakes be

Although you should both discuss what happened to the relationship, blaming each other will not make any sense to the situation. Learn to let go of old grudges just as you have decided to let go of the relationship.

By: Sam Seo

Sam Seo is author of How Ex Back.For more information about How to ex back visit www.howexback.com

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